[LITE][NPU][XPU] Refine subgraph pass, and support NPU/XPU model generation at execution time (#2576)

* fix cuda building, test=develop

* remove sequence_pool from cmake because build error, test=develop

* support build C++ cuda shared lib

add CUDAContext assignment operator to fix cuda compile bug

* Initial support for XPU
* Fix compiling errors of XPU
* Move XPU op kernel bridges from backends to kernels to fix deps order
* Change the namespace and directory of XPU bridges
* Add XPU SDK
* Fix header files and namespace of XPU SDK
* Add unit tests for relu and conv2d ops
* Restore the modification of paddle_api_test
* Supports simple model which contains only a relu layer
* Add compiling scripts for XPU
* Fix compiling errors of XPU
* Add comments for XPU LoadModel and BuildModel

* [NPU] Fix the bug of loading multi NPU models
test=develop

* [NPU] Use lite tensor to store NPU model, fix the management of multi NPU models, support loading NPU model from memory and reduce the modification of framework
test=develop

* [NPU] Remove redundant header files for NPU bridges,
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* [NPU] fix NPU deps
test=develop

* [NPU] refine the compiling script for NPU
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* [NPU] remove redundant subdirectory in lite/CMakeLists.txt
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* [NPU] Fix and refine NPU test case
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* [NPU] revoke the modification of other non-NPU modules
test=develop

* [NPU] Remove NPU bridges if target is tiny publish
test=develop

* [LITE][OPENCL] support image2d. test=develop

* add context changed with consider image*. test=develop

* add layout, relu image kernels. test=develop

* replace image_data with data, mutable_image_data with mutable_data, test=develop

* comment unused var. test=develop

* remove unused var. test=develop

* add conv int8 support(in condition which the input or output channel not be the times of 4)
add add_kernel for cuda.

* can run yolov3 fp32
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* 1. fix bug with yolov3 run
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* add full_api_static target and fix building errors, test=develop

* fix build errors, test=develop

* fix code style, test=develop

* fix lite/model_parser/pb/var_desc.cc, test=develop

* fix building errors, test=develop

* modify lite/tools/debug/CMakeLists.txt, test=develop

* paddle lite cuda init
can run model with leaky_relu

* add the missing file.
test=develop

* fix building ios tiny publish lib error

* support setting cluster and threads in MobileConfig

* fix build error, test=develop

* fix building server publish error, test=develop