Move custom extension structures from SSL_CTX to CERT structure.

This change means the form can be revised in future without binary
compatibility issues. Also since CERT is part of SSL structures
so per-SSL custom extensions could be supported in future as well as
per SSL_CTX.
Reviewed-by: NRich Salz <rsalz@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: NEmilia Käsper <emilia@openssl.org>