When no-ssl3 is set only make SSLv3 disabled by default. Retain -ssl3
options for s_client/s_server/ssltest.

When no-ssl3-method is set SSLv3_*method() is removed and all -ssl3
options.

We should document this somewhere, e.g. wiki, FAQ or manual page.
Reviewed-by: NEmilia Käsper <emilia@openssl.org>