Add performance/debug counters to track sent/received messages, retries,
and duplicates.  Counters are tracked per CM message type, per port.

The counters are always enabled, so intrusive state tracking is not done.
Signed-off-by: NSean Hefty <sean.hefty@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NRoland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>