ADD-IP spec has a special case for processing ABORTs:
    F4) ... One special consideration is that ABORT
        Chunks arriving destined to the IP address being deleted MUST be
        ignored (see Section 5.3.1 for further details).

Check if the address we received on is in the DEL state, and if
so, ignore the ABORT.
Signed-off-by: NVlad Yasevich <vladislav.yasevich@hp.com>
Signed-off-by: NDavid S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>