In previous commits the schedulers started to access
svc->destinations with _rcu list traversal primitives
because the IP_VS_WAIT_WHILE macro still plays the role of
grace period. Now it is time to finish the updating part,
i.e. adding and deleting of dests with _rcu suffix before
removing the IP_VS_WAIT_WHILE in next commit.

We use the same rule for conns as for the
schedulers: dests can be searched in RCU read-side critical
section where ip_vs_dest_hold can be called by ip_vs_bind_dest.

Some things are not perfect, for example, calling
functions like ip_vs_lookup_dest from updating code under
RCU, just because we use some function both from reader
and from updater.
Signed-off-by: NJulian Anastasov <ja@ssi.bg>
Signed-off-by: NSimon Horman <horms@verge.net.au>