Introduce a state enum into sdebug_defer objects to indicate which, if
any, defer method has been used with the associated command.  Also add 2
bools to indicate which of the defer methods has been initialized. Those
objects are re-used but the initialization only needs to be done
once. This simplifies command cancellation handling.

Now the delay associated with a deferred response of a command cannot be
changed (once started) by changing the delay (and ndelay) parameters in
sysfs. Command aborts and driver shutdown are still honoured immediately
when received.

[mkp: applied by hand]
Signed-off-by: NDouglas Gilbert <dgilbert@interlog.com>
Reviewed-by: NBart Van Assche <bart.vanassche@wdc.com>
Signed-off-by: NMartin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>