Now that we can safely call QOBJECT() on QObject * as well as its
subtypes, we can have macros qobject_ref() / qobject_unref() that work
everywhere instead of having to use QINCREF() / QDECREF() for QObject
and qobject_incref() / qobject_decref() for its subtypes.

The replacement is mechanical, except I broke a long line, and added a
cast in monitor_qmp_cleanup_req_queue_locked().  Unlike
qobject_decref(), qobject_unref() doesn't accept void *.

Note that the new macros evaluate their argument exactly once, thus no
need to shout them.
Signed-off-by: NMarc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: NEric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20180419150145.24795-4-marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: NMarkus Armbruster <armbru@redhat.com>
[Rebased, semantic conflict resolved, commit message improved]
Signed-off-by: NMarkus Armbruster <armbru@redhat.com>