Replace spinning send_all() with a proper non-blocking send.  When the
socket write buffer limit is reached, we should stop trying to send and
wait for the socket to become writable again.

Non-blocking TCP sockets can return in two different ways when the write
buffer limit is reached:

1. ret = -1 and errno = EAGAIN/EWOULDBLOCK.  No data has been written.

2. ret < total_size.  Short write, only part of the message was
   transmitted.

Handle both cases and keep track of how many bytes have been written in
s->send_index.  (This includes the 'length' header before the actual
payload buffer.)
Signed-off-by: NStefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@linux.vnet.ibm.com>