Add get_ep_from_stid() which will atomically find and reference the
endpoint struct if found. This avoids touch-after-free races between
threads destroying listening endpoints and the CPL processing thread
processing an incoming PASS_ACCEPT_REQ CPL.
Signed-off-by: NSteve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Signed-off-by: NHariprasad Shenai <hariprasad@chelsio.com>
Signed-off-by: NDoug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>