Implement ap->nr_active_links (the number of links with active qcs),
ap->excl_link (pointer to link which can be used by ->qc_defer and is
cleared when a qc with ATA_QCFLAG_CLEAR_EXCL completes), and
ata_link_active().

These can be used by ->qc_defer() to implement proper command
exclusion.  This set of helpers seem enough for both sil24 (ATAPI
exclusion needed) and cmd-switching PMP.
Signed-off-by: NTejun Heo <htejun@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: NJeff Garzik <jeff@garzik.org>