sae and sre bits should only be set when setting sra_max.  Further, in
the old code, if the caller specifies max_rd_atomic = 0, the sre and
sae bits are still set, with the result that the QP ends up with
max_rd_atomic = 1 in effect.
Signed-off-by: NJack Morgenstein <jackm@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: NMichael S. Tsirkin <mst@mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: NRoland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>