devlink-rate API requires a priv object to be allocated when node still
doesn't have a parent. This is problematic, because ice_sched_node can't
be currently created without a parent.

Add an option to pre-allocate memory for ice_sched_node struct. Add
new arguments to ice_sched_add() and ice_sched_add_elems() that allow
for pre-allocation of memory for ice_sched_node struct.
Signed-off-by: NMichal Wilczynski <michal.wilczynski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NJakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>