For ease of management it would be nice for users to specify that the
device node for a nbd device is destroyed once it is disconnected and
there are no more users.  Add a client flag and enable this operation to
happen.
Signed-off-by: NJosef Bacik <jbacik@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: NJens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>