If the ib_cm module is unloaded while id's are still in timewait, the
CM will destroy the work queue used to process timewait.  Once the
id's exit timewait, their timers will fire, leading to a crash trying
to access the destroyed work queue.

We need to track id's that are in timewait, and cancel their deferred
work on module unload.
Signed-off-by: NSean Hefty <sean.hefty@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NRoland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>