Don't blame the peer for being unresponsive,
if we did not even ask the question yet.
Signed-off-by: NPhilipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: NLars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: NJens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>