Each driver should check that it can support the provided attr_mask during
modify_qp. IB_USER_VERBS_EX_CMD_MODIFY_QP was being used to block
modify_qp_ex because the driver didn't check RATE_LIMIT.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/6-v1-caa70ba3d1ab+1436e-ucmd_mask_jgg@nvidia.comSigned-off-by: NJason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>