When polling sockets for accept, use EPOLLEXCLUSIVE. This is helpful
when multiple accept SQEs are submitted.

For O_NONBLOCK sockets multiple queued SQEs would previously have all
completed at once, but most with -EAGAIN as the result. Now only one
wakes up and completes.

For sockets without O_NONBLOCK there is no user facing change, but
internally the extra requests would previously be queued onto a worker
thread as they would wake up with no connection waiting, and be
punted. Now they do not wake up unnecessarily.
Co-developed-by: NJens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>
Signed-off-by: NDylan Yudaken <dylany@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220325093755.4123343-1-dylany@fb.comSigned-off-by: NJens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>