Add ABI definitions for irdma.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20210602205138.889-15-shiraz.saleem@intel.comSigned-off-by: NMustafa Ismail <mustafa.ismail@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NShiraz Saleem <shiraz.saleem@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NJason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>