Allows br_multicast_alloc_query to build queries with the port group's
source lists and sends a query for sources over and under lmqt when
necessary as per RFCs 3376 and 3810 with the suppress flag set
appropriately.

v3: add IPv6 support
Signed-off-by: NNikolay Aleksandrov <nikolay@cumulusnetworks.com>
Signed-off-by: NJakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>