A pre-step for adding shared CQs. Add the infrastructure to prevent shared
CQ users from altering the CQ configurations. For now all cqs are marked
as private (non-shared). The core driver should use the new force
functions to perform resize/destroy/moderation changes that are not
allowed for users of shared CQs.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1590568495-101621-2-git-send-email-yaminf@mellanox.comSigned-off-by: NYamin Friedman <yaminf@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: NOr Gerlitz <ogerlitz@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: NMax Gurtovoy <maxg@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: NLeon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: NJason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>