Use the new RNR timer for hfi1.

For qib, this timer doesn't exist, so exploit driver
callbacks to use the new timer as appropriate.
Reviewed-by: NJubin John <jubin.john@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NMike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NDoug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>