Many fields in ctxtdata are incorrectly sized and the organization of the
fields within the structure is a jumble.

Fix by:
- Correcting oversize fields.
- Putting fields common to all contexts at the top with hot fields
  at the top.
- Moving PSM fields to the bottom of the structure.
Reviewed-by: NMichael J. Ruhl <michael.j.ruhl@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NMike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NDennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NJason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>