Adopt an approach similar to the RPC server's auth cache (from Aurelien
Charbon and Brian Haley).

Note nlm_lookup_host()'s existing IP address hash function has the same
issue with correctness on little-endian systems as the original IPv4 auth
cache hash function, so I've also updated it with a hash function similar
to the new auth cache hash function.
Signed-off-by: NChuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: NJ. Bruce Fields <bfields@citi.umich.edu>