Hide the contents and format of xprt->addr by eliminating direct uses
of the xprt->addr.sin_port field.  This change is required to support
alternate RPC host address formats (eg IPv6).

Test-plan:
Destructive testing (unplugging the network temporarily).  Repeated runs of
Connectathon locking suite with UDP and TCP.
Signed-off-by: NChuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: NTrond Myklebust <Trond.Myklebust@netapp.com>