make_request() access various shape parameters (raid_disks, chunk_size
etc) which might be changed by raid5_start_reshape().

If the later is called at and awkward time during the form, the wrong
stripe_head might be used.

So introduce a 'seqcount' and after finding a stripe_head make sure
there is no reason to expect that we got the wrong one.
Signed-off-by: NNeilBrown <neilb@suse.de>