Change struct mlx4_net_trans_rule_hw_eth :: vlan_id name to vlan_tag

Change struct mlx4_net_trans_rule_hw_ib :: r_u_qpn name to l3_qpn

The patch doesn't introduce any functional change or API change
towards the firmware.
Signed-off-by: NHadar Hen Zion <hadarh@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: NOr Gerlitz <ogerlitz@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: NRoland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>