Abort handler fixes.

If a connection is dropped and reconnected while an abort is
running then we should assume the recovery code will clean up
the abort. Not doing so causes a oops.

And if a command completes then we get the status for the abort, we do not
need to call into the LLD to cleanup the resources. Doing this causes
and oops in iser because it ends up freeing some resources twice.
Signed-off-by: NMike Christie <michaelc@cs.wisc.edu>
Signed-off-by: NJames Bottomley <James.Bottomley@SteelEye.com>