If the consumer rejects the connection we end up under-referencing the
endpoint structure.  The fix is to call iwch_ep_disconnect() instead
of the low level disconnect functions so that the endpoint close timer
is started correctly.
Signed-off-by: NSteve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Signed-off-by: NRoland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>