Fix routed RDMA connections to destinations where the next hop is not
the final destination.  Use neigh_*() to properly locate neighbor.
Signed-off-by: NBob Sharp <bsharp@neteffect.com>
Signed-off-by: NSweta Bhatt <sweta.bhatt@einfochips.com>
Signed-off-by: NChien Tung <ctung@neteffect.com>