We were using coarse spinlocks that could end up with a deadlock.
This patch fixes that and makes the spinlocks much more fine-grained.

We also drop be->watchding state spinlocks as they are already
guarded by the xenwatch_thread against multiple customers. Without
that we would trigger the BUG: scheduling while atomic.
Signed-off-by: NKonrad Rzeszutek Wilk <konrad.wilk@oracle.com>