Unlike blk_mq_stop_hw_queues, blk_mq_quiesce_queue respects the
submission path rcu grace. quiesce the queue before iterating
on live tags, or performing device io quiescing.

While were at it, verify that the request started in mtip_abort_cmd
amd mtip_queue_cmd tag iteration calls.
Reviewed-by: NMing Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: NSagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>