Use common header file structs, defines, and accessors
in the drivers.  The old declarations are removed.

The repositioning of the includes allows for the removal
of hfi1_message_header and replaces its use with ib_header.

Also corrected are two issues with set_armed_to_active():
- The "packet" parameter is now a pointer as it should have been
- The etype is validated to insure that the header is correct
Reviewed-by: NDennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: NDon Hiatt <don.hiatt@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NMike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NDennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NDoug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>