In P_Key event handling, if the old P_Key is no longer available, the
driver must call ipoib_ib_dev_stop() -- just as it does when the P_Key
is still available (see procedure __ipoib_ib_dev_flush()).

When a P_Key becomes available, the driver will perform ipoib_open(),
which assumes that the QP is in RESET, the cm_id has been
destroyed/deleted, etc.  If ipoib_ib_dev_stop() is not called as
described above, then these assumptions will be false, and the attempt
to bring the interface up will fail.

Found by Mellanox QA.
Signed-off-by: NJack Morgenstein <jackm@dev.mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: NRoland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>