Update VS Code to 1.51.1

This is the last unused variable in the create terminal payload.

This makes it re-connect automatically.

It works, at least, but there are still some missing parts.

The telemetry service depends on this now. I had to move it into
invokeFunction and use accessor.get otherwise getLogger on the service
was undefined.

I also had to move some the extension management service because it
depends on the moved telemetry service. I moved a few other services as
well to better match VS Code (sharedProcessMain.ts).

I swapped some this.services.get with accessor.get since that seems to
be the correct method although for these other services either method
seems to work.

login.css: Disable webkit appearance for input elements 

Separate process wrappers and pass arguments

I removed this under the impression the default was to allow it anywhere
but that's not the case. Since the service worker was already registered
in my browser I never got the error during testing.

Fix 404 webviews and tar endpoint

Not sure why Safari does these things...

Closes #2247

This reverts commit f79bb210.

It was checking the request path but for tars the path is in the query
variable so the request path is irrelevant.

An extra slash caused a 404 (was /webview//vscode-resource).

Also move our memory default to the beginning of NODE_OPTIONS so it can
be overidden. The version of the flag with dashes seems to be the more
correct one now so use that instead of underscores.

Related: #2113.

Fixes #2316.

I think having them combined and relying on if statements was getting
confusing especially if we want to add additional messages with
different payloads (which will soon be the case).

I managed to lose this in the rewrite.

Fixes #2327.

v3.7.1

Closes #2310

v3.7.0

ms-toolsai.jupyter is now a dependency of ms-python and is installed
along with it.

See @sreya's review