Replace invocation of `find` with Ruby code that matches old cached
files in a better, and safe way to avoid data-integrity issues.

This reverts commit 530f5158.

See !4892.
Signed-off-by: NRémy Coutable <remy@rymai.me>

This reverts commit 9ca633eb, reversing
changes made to fb229bbf.

1. When a merge request is being merged, save the merge commit SHA in
   the `in_progress_merge_commit_sha` database column.

2. The `pre-receive` hook looks for any locked (in progress) merge
   request with `in_progress_merge_commit_sha` matching the `newrev` it
   is passed.

3. If it finds a matching MR, the merge is legitimate.

4. Update `git_access_spec` to test the behaviour we added here. Also
   refactored this spec a bit to make it easier to add more contexts / conditions.