change all .nav-links to use flex
place Resolve Discussions above tabs on small screens, and to the right on large

Closes #30881

Refactored slightly so that the same logic is shared between both the
expanded & the collapsed.

Fixed extra margin when the merge request tabs are affixed

This was caused by some weird padding that was on the container & then
not correctly removed.

The fix involved removing the container from inside the tabs holder div
& then adding the widths through CSS depending on if fixed & whether the
parent is limited width or not.

In reality out container classes need to be fixed as it is getting pretty un-managable at the moment this should of been an easy fix, but in reality turned into something much harder.

Closes #26853