A destroy of an MR prior to destroying the QP can cause the following
diagnostic if the QP is referencing the MR being de-registered:

hfi1 0000:05:00.0: hfi1_0: rvt_dereg_mr timeout mr ffff8808562108
              00 pd ffff880859b20b00

The solution is to when the a non-zero refcount is encountered when
the MR is destroyed the QPs needs to be iterated looking for QPs in
the same PD as the MR.  If rvt_qp_mr_clean() detects any such QP
references the rkey/lkey, the QP needs to be put into an error state
via a call to rvt_qp_error() which will trigger the clean up of any
stuck references.

This solution is as specified in IBTA 1.3 Volume 1 11.2.10.5.

[This is reproduced with the 0.4.9 version of qperf and the rc_bw test]
Reviewed-by: NDennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NMike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NDennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: NDoug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>