Summary: RocksDB lite don't support dynamic options. Disable the two test from lite build, and assert `SetOptions` should return `status::OK`.

Test Plan: Run the db_options test under lite build and normal build.

Reviewers: sdong

Reviewed By: sdong

Subscribers: andrewkr, dhruba, leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D61119

Summary:
When write stalls because of auto compaction is disabled, or stop write trigger is reached,
user may change these two options to unblock writes. Unfortunately we had issue where the write
thread will block the attempt to persist the options, thus creating a deadlock. This diff
fix the issue and add two test cases to detect such deadlock.

Test Plan:
Run unit tests.

Also, revert db_impl.cc to master (but don't revert `DBImpl::BackgroundCompaction:Finish` sync point) and run db_options_test. Both tests should hit deadlock.

Reviewers: sdong

Reviewed By: sdong

Subscribers: andrewkr, dhruba, leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D60627