Summary:
It seems like CF Options are not properly validated  when creating a new column family with `CreateColumnFamily` API; only a selected few checks are done. Calling `ColumnFamilyData::ValidateOptions`, which is the single source for all CFOptions validations,  will help fix this. (`ColumnFamilyData::ValidateOptions` is already called at the time of `DB::Open`).

**Test Plan:**
Added a new test: `DBTest.CreateColumnFamilyShouldFailOnIncompatibleOptions`
```
TEST_TMPDIR=/dev/shm ./db_test --gtest_filter=DBTest.CreateColumnFamilyShouldFailOnIncompatibleOptions
```
Also ran gtest-parallel to make sure the new test is not flaky.
```
TEST_TMPDIR=/dev/shm ~/gtest-parallel/gtest-parallel ./db_test --gtest_filter=DBTest.CreateColumnFamilyShouldFailOnIncompatibleOptions --repeat=10000
[10000/10000] DBTest.CreateColumnFamilyShouldFailOnIncompatibleOptions (15 ms)
```
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/5453

Differential Revision: D15816851

Pulled By: sagar0

fbshipit-source-id: 9e702b9850f5c4a7e0ef8d39e1e6f9b81e7fe1e5