Summary:
Various tests had disabled valgrind due to it slowing down and timing
out (as is the case right now) the CI runs. Where a test was disabled with no comment,
I assumed slowness was the cause. For these tests that were slow under
valgrind, as well as the ones identified in https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/issues/8352, this PR moves them
behind the compiler flag `-DROCKSDB_FULL_VALGRIND_RUN`.

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/8475

Test Plan: running `make full_valgrind_test`, `make valgrind_test`, `make check`; will verify they appear working correctly

Reviewed By: jay-zhuang

Differential Revision: D29504843

Pulled By: ajkr

fbshipit-source-id: 2aac90749cfbd30d5ce11cb29a07a1b9314eeea7