Summary:
Currently, GetIntProperty("rocksdb.cur-size-all-mem-tables") only returns
the memory usage by those memtables which have not yet been flushed.

This patch introduces GetIntProperty("rocksdb.size-all-mem-tables"),
which includes the memory usage by all the memtables, includes those
have been flushed but pinned by iterators.

Test Plan: Added a test in db_test

Reviewers: igor, anthony, IslamAbdelRahman, sdong

Reviewed By: sdong

Subscribers: dhruba, leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D44229