Summary:
In `cf_options_type_info`, the deprecated options are all considered to have offset zero in the `MutableCFOptions` struct. Previously we weren't checking in `GetMutableOptionsFromStrings` whether the provided option was deprecated or not and simply writing the provided value to the offset specified by `cf_options_type_info`. That meant setting any deprecated option would overwrite the first element in the struct, which is `write_buffer_size`. `db_stress` hit this often since it calls `SetOptions` with `soft_rate_limit=0` and `hard_rate_limit=0`, which are both deprecated so cause `write_buffer_size` to be set to zero, which causes it to crash on the following assertion:

```
db_stress: db/memtable.cc:106: rocksdb::MemTable::MemTable(const rocksdb::InternalKeyComparator&, const rocksdb::ImmutableCFOptions&, const rocksdb::MutableCFOptions&, rocksdb::WriteBufferManager*, rocksdb::SequenceNumber, uint32_t): Assertion `!ShouldScheduleFlush()' failed.
```

We fix it by skipping deprecated options (and logging a warning) when users provide them to `SetOptions`. I didn't want to fail the call for compatibility reasons.
Closes https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/3700

Differential Revision: D7572596

Pulled By: ajkr

fbshipit-source-id: bd5d84e14c0c39f30c5d4c6df7c1503d2c28ecf1