Summary:
We can avoid the dependency by forward-declaring ColumnFamilyData and
then treating it as a black box. That means callers of ThreadStatusUtil need to
explicitly provide more options, even if they can be derived from the
ColumnFamilyData, since ThreadStatusUtil doesn't include the definition.

This is part of a series of diffs to eliminate circular dependencies between
directories (e.g., db/* files depending on util/* files and vice-versa).

Test Plan:
  $ ./db_test --gtest_filter=DBTest.GetThreadStatus
  $ make -j32 commit-prereq

Reviewers: sdong, yhchiang, IslamAbdelRahman

Subscribers: dhruba, leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D53361