Summary:
The goal of this change is to allow changes to the "current" (in
FileSystem) file temperatures to feed back into DB metadata, so that
they can inform decisions and stats reporting. In part because of
modular code factoring, it doesn't seem easy to do this automagically,
where opening an SST file and observing current Temperature different
from expected would trigger a change in metadata and DB manifest write
(essentially giving the deep read path access to the write path). It is also
difficult to do this while the DB is open because of the limitations of
LogAndApply.

This change allows updating file temperature metadata on a closed DB
using an experimental utility function UpdateManifestForFilesState()
or `ldb update_manifest --update_temperatures`. This should suffice for
"migration" scenarios where outside tooling has placed or re-arranged DB
files into a (different) tiered configuration without going through
RocksDB itself (currently, only compaction can change temperature
metadata).

Some details:
* Refactored and added unit test for `ldb unsafe_remove_sst_file` because
of shared functionality
* Pulled in autovector.h changes from https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/issues/9546 to fix SuperVersionContext
move constructor (related to an older draft of this change)

Possible follow-up work:
* Support updating manifest with file checksums, such as when a
new checksum function is used and want existing DB metadata updated
for it.
* It's possible that for some repair scenarios, lighter weight than
full repair, we might want to support UpdateManifestForFilesState() to
modify critical file details like size or checksum using same
algorithm. But let's make sure these are differentiated from modifying
file details in ways that don't suspect corruption (or require extreme
trust).

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/9683

Test Plan: unit tests added

Reviewed By: jay-zhuang

Differential Revision: D34798828

Pulled By: pdillinger

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