Summary: In concurrent memtable insert case, updating counters in MemTable::Add() can count for 5% CPU usage. By batch all the counters and update in the end of the write batch, the CPU overheads are overhead in the use cases where more than one key is updated in one write batch.

Test Plan:
Write throughput increases 12% with this benchmark setting:

TEST_TMPDIR=/dev/shm/ ./db_bench --benchmarks=fillrandom -disable_auto_compactions -level0_slowdown_writes_trigger=9999 -level0_stop_writes_trigger=9999 -num=10000000 --writes=1000000 -max_background_flushes=16 -max_write_buffer_number=16 --threads=64 --batch_size=128   -allow_concurrent_memtable_write -enable_write_thread_adaptive_yield

Reviewers: andrewkr, IslamAbdelRahman, ngbronson, igor

Reviewed By: ngbronson

Subscribers: ngbronson, leveldb, andrewkr, dhruba

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D60495