Summary:
There is a bug when the write queue leader is blocked on a write
delay/stop, and the queue has writers with WriteOptions::no_slowdown set
to true. They are not woken up until the write stall is cleared.

The fix introduces a dummy writer inserted at the tail to indicate a
write stall and prevent further inserts into the queue, and a condition
variable that writers who can tolerate slowdown wait on before adding
themselves to the queue. The leader calls WriteThread::BeginWriteStall()
to add the dummy writer and then walk the queue to fail any writers with
no_slowdown set. Once the stall clears, the leader calls
WriteThread::EndWriteStall() to remove the dummy writer and signal the
condition variable.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/4475

Differential Revision: D10285827

Pulled By: anand1976

fbshipit-source-id: 747465e5e7f07a829b1fb0bc1afcd7b93f4ab1a9