Summary:
This patch introduces utilities/memory, which currently includes
GetApproximateMemoryUsageByType that reports different types of
rocksdb memory usage given a list of input DBs.

The API also take care of the case where Cache could be shared
across multiple column families / multiple db instances.

Currently, it reports memory usage of memtable, table-readers
and cache.

Test Plan: utilities/memory/memory_test.cc

Reviewers: igor, anthony, IslamAbdelRahman, sdong

Reviewed By: sdong

Subscribers: dhruba, leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D49257