Summary:
In Java API, `SstFileWriter.put/merge/delete` takes `Slice` type of key and value, which is a Java wrapper object around C++ Slice object.  The Slice object inherited [ `finalize`](https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/blob/3c327ac2d0fd50bbd82fe1f1af5de909dad769e6/java/src/main/java/org/rocksdb/AbstractNativeReference.java#L69) method, which [added huge overhead](https://softwareengineering.stackexchange.com/questions/288715/is-overriding-object-finalize-really-bad/288753#288753) to JVM while creating new SstFile.

To address this issue, this PR overload the merge method to take Java byte array instead of the Slice object, and added unit test for it.

We also benchmark these two different merge function, where we could see GC Stall reduced from 50%  to 1%, and the throughput increased from 50MB to 200MB.
Closes https://github.com/facebook/rocksdb/pull/2746

Reviewed By: sagar0

Differential Revision: D5653145

Pulled By: scv119

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