Summary: Add option write_buffer_manager to help users control total memory spent on memtables across multiple DB instances.

Test Plan: Add a new unit test.

Reviewers: yhchiang, IslamAbdelRahman

Reviewed By: IslamAbdelRahman

Subscribers: adela, benj, sumeet, muthu, leveldb, andrewkr, dhruba

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D59925